Realizing your own potential and worth is a big step in not becoming “too attached” to others. I think that we must first understand that we are more than what someone else can bring into our lives.
We can bring abundance into our own lives and sometimes it is hard to hear that when there is a thought in the mind that wants that attachment first. There is so much momentum behind the want, that desire, that need that attachment implies. In such a case, self-evaluation is helpful. We must ask ourselves questions like “Why?” “Why do I need this person so much?” “What do they provide for me that I do not currently provide for myself?” Is it love?
Adventure? Excitement? Whatever it is, you must first be ENOUGH before someone else can win that freedom to also be enough so that way no matter what kind of relationship it is… you can both be enough for each other. Or, even, find out, with peace and understanding, that, perhaps, another path is the correct one
